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The SoMi Counseling Blog
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Stress


Summer Stress: Navigating the July Slump
By July, summer can start to feel… off. The initial excitement has worn off. The big vacations are done or still weeks away. Kids are home more. Routines become loose, and days start to blur. Suddenly, you may wonder why everyone seems a little more irritable, unmotivated, or emotionally drained. It’s not just you. Understanding Unstructured Time Unstructured time—while necessary and even healthy—can also create stress. Our brains crave rhythm. When structure disappears, so d

Marissa Rosales
Jun 27, 20253 min read


When “I Have to Get It Right” Becomes the Problem: The Anxiety Behind Perfectionism
Do you triple-check your work, agonize over decisions, or feel paralyzed when something doesn’t go exactly as planned?

Marissa Rosales
Jun 12, 20252 min read


When Numbing Out Becomes a Way of Life
You don’t have to feel miserable to be struggling with your mental health

Marissa Rosales
Jun 5, 20252 min read


The Hidden Impact of Avoidance: How Stress Grows in Silence
Avoidance might feel like a relief in the moment, but over time, it teaches our brain that we can't handle discomfort.

Marissa Rosales
May 30, 20252 min read


Control Isn’t About Power—It’s About Safety
For many people, especially those with anxiety, the urge to control isn’t about being difficult.

Marissa Rosales
May 23, 20253 min read


Challenging the Stories You Tell Yourself
Over time, without even realizing it, these old scripts can shape how we see ourselves and how we move through the world.

Marissa Rosales
Apr 29, 20252 min read


Mental Overload & Decision Fatigue: Why You’re So Tired (And What Helps)
Our brains are designed to make thousands of small decisions a day, but when we don’t give them the chance to rest or reset, we get stuck in a loop of indecision and overwhelm.

Marissa Rosales
Apr 8, 20252 min read


Rewriting the Self-Doubt Script: How to Quiet Your Inner Critic
The voice in your head isn't always right; it's a learned response that can be rewritten with intentional effort.

Marissa Rosales
Mar 13, 20253 min read


The Science of Stress: How to Regain Control and Reset Your Mind
The good news? Stress isn’t the enemy—staying stuck in stress is.

Marissa Rosales
Mar 10, 20252 min read


Sleep is a Gift
It happens all the time: the kids have been having fun all day, running around, jumping, but it’s time to end everything. The day is coming to an end, and you worry about telling the kids that it’s time to stop having fun, to put everything away, to settle down and prepare. You don’t even want to mention the word, but you have to, every night… it’s time to SLEEP. Sleep has a horrible reputation with kids because it means that their fun has to end. It means that the laughter

Oscar Corea
Feb 28, 20253 min read

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